In a previous article “You, The Dreamer“, I discussed several topics focusing on achieving your dreams. There are only several things in life that truly paralyze us from achieving those dreams.
Patterns
Patterns are what we develope over the years, and they stick to us like glue. Each individual has a unique pattern engraved in the life that is preventing them from achieving the goals or dreams they desire. Most individuals are also aware of these patterns.
Since most people are aware of their patterns and if it were true, then why aren’t more people achieving success, and turning their dreams into reality? It’s simple. Comfort zone.
Patterns give us comfort and security. It’s a sure thing and it’s simply what we are used to. The known. We understand what results from our patterns bring us daily. Breaking away from those patterns does not guarantee quality results.
A simple example of a girl, who loves beautiful designer clothing, however, due to a respect for brands we will use Brand A and Brand B in this example. She loves the brand A and it provides great quality, however deep down inside she want’s the Brand B quality stuff, however, Brand A is comfortable, due to a fact that she knows she can have that now. Risking of potentially trying to making some compromise in life would risk potentially losing Brand A and never reaching Brand B, thus causing the reason for her sticking to a pattern and what is comfortable.
Breaking away a pattern is difficult. For some of us, we built certain patterns for years and some individuals for decades. Sometimes people believe they can take away certain patterns and change their habits overnight. You won’t. Setting high expectations causes a like effect of disappointment and failure.
Time.
The importance of time is everything. No flower grows overnight. At least not the ones that I am aware of. Each individual action requires time and patients.
In order to break away from a pattern, I have learned that I had to start doing things in a Certain Way. Patterns are like an autopilot since we build them over an extensive priod of time it’s easy to sink our self back into them. We at times need to remind our self that we need to do things in a Certain Way in order to break away from our patterns.
Remember and believe that you can do anything, and with patients give things time to grow. Overtime the results will show.